Weekly Connections with Brian Lafontaine July 27, 2025
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For the record, I am NOT a Certified Financial Planner, a CPA or have any degrees in Finance. I am just a guy who has lived through several recessions/depressions, worked for a company that went Bankrupt in my 30’s and had to rebuild my personal portfolio more than once. The advice I will be sharing is that of a concerned Brother, Uncle, Father and Friend. As we’ve talked about many times before, Men are generally the caretakers and breadwinners. Certainly, times have changed where many families find themselves as dual income, with shared responsibility while preparing for a future and a family.
With the limited space I have to fill every few weeks, we certainly will not get to everything. I will do my best to share some general areas of focus and strategy to help make sure you are not only able retire someday, but also to live a reasonably comfortably life until then. That said, remember that life is hard and has no guarantees, so you need to live YOUR life, every single day. Never let any one challenge overwhelm you.
Under 35: $49,130, 35–44: $141,520, 45–54: $313,220, 55–64: $537,560, 65–74: $609,230, and 75 or older: $462,410.
I can also tell you that in 30 years, none of this will be enough. I don’t want to scare you but without a plan now, especially when you are young, it will be much easier to handle than if you start at 50.
I am sure some of you are already freaking out about this. Don’t. Awareness is key and I can’t stress enough how important a budget, planning and personal responsibility will play in your future. Being an adult is hard sometimes. Financial discussions are uncomfortable. You need to have them with a trusted relative, friend or a professional. Living within your means sometimes mean doing without. Eat in more, buy a used car next time, shop online and look for better deals. Frugality is not something to be ashamed of. Many rich folks live that way, hence how they keep their money.
Exactly! We’ve covered Side Hustles in previous weeks. We’ve also talked about how to learn to fix and do things yourself. See how all of this comes together? I can’t promise any of you a high paying job or even one that will keep you 40 years. Those days are over. We, as the Men in the family, need to always be looking for ways to do it ourselves, caring for and protecting our families and sometimes that means having the hard conversations about spending.
I can assure you that your brothers are dealing with these same challenges. Having a small circle of guys that you can trust with these discussions is so important. Don’t be embarrassed to ask for someone’s insights when it comes to finances. Sharing challenges and fears with those you trust will not only show you are not alone, but I promise it will take your stress levels down too. Build that Brotherhood and continue to support each other!
Colin has been a long time Lake Norman resident and has been very active in the community. From Commissioner to founding the Lake Norman Lighted Christmas Boat Parade to now a featured Author and small business owner! His desire is to bring men together and encourage them to reach out. He has always said, ‘look out for yourselves and each other.’ All men need a Brotherhood. www.brobeardproducts.shop