If you’re like 30–50% of the U.S. population, you start the year with a resolution.
And if you’re like many others, you’ve also noticed… they don’t always last.
In fact, less than 1% of people keep their resolutions for an entire year. Many are abandoned within the first 30 days (depending on the survey, anywhere from 8–75% fall off by month one).
And yet—the desire is real.
People genuinely want to:
(These are consistently the top reasons people set resolutions.)
So why do so many resolutions get orphaned so quickly?
The “Fail-ution”
The issue isn’t desire.
It’s method.
There are three proven ways to dramatically increase your chances of success:
Intentions vs. Resolutions:
On paper, the words are similar.
But emotionally? They feel very different.
According to Gallup, about 70% of decisions are driven by emotions. That means how something feels matters more than how logical or well-planned it is.
Intentions feel more forgiving and less pass/fail. They speak to direction and focus – something you can reset when sidetracked.
Build a Habit
Research shows that about 40% of our day is driven by habits—automatic behaviors we repeat without thinking.
To implement your intention, you just need to align small actions by asking:
Example:
If your intention is to exercise more:
Each choice that supports your intention counts as a win. Small wins add up.
Add Accountability
When I was a teenager, a friend and I called each other every morning.
The call lasted 60 seconds—just long enough to remind each other to stick with our resolution.
We were in the 1% who made it the whole year.
Every year after, without that accountability? I didn’t.
Accountability works. Try:
The bonus? Accountability strengthens connection, which is a key ingredient of overall wellBEing.
So… What Will You Choose?
What’s one step you can take today toward the thing you truly want?
Remember:
Every step counts.
Every aligned choice is a win.
Celebrate progress. Don’t give up.
The transformation isn’t just in the destination—it’s in the journey toward WellBEing.
Debbey Woodruff – Your WellBEing Guide – is a certified yoga teacher and mindfulness practitioner. Through yoga therapy, mindful movement, breathwork, and guided self-reflection, Debbey helps you reconnect with your body, calm your mind, and nurture lasting emotional well-being. Experience a compassionate, personalized path to healing and renewal and find your W.O.W. – Whole-body Optimized WellBEing ©. Debbey is the owner of Breakthrough! WellBEing Phone: 704-881-4912 and email:info@breakthroughwellbeing.com
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You are a blessing. May you also be blessed!

